Starting to Date After Divorce

over 35 datingA few months ago, we discussed  the issue of dating after a divorce. We also outlined what you can do to get back in the dating game after undergoing a divorce.

In this article, we provide three more tips you can follow to improve your prospects of finding love after divorce. Read on.

Socialize at local events

Check events that you like that are happening near your area and engage in activities that interest you. Have fun in your search for that special someone. Do not take up an activity that you have no interest in just because you want to meet a mate. Along the same note, do not show that you are desperate. It is not guaranteed that you will meet someone during these gatherings so you have to be open to any possibility.

For divorced women, the best way to go is perhaps having lunch at restaurants where doctors, lawyers and most over 40s males frequent. Visit any place or attend an event that men or women in your age group.

Actively pursue your ideal partner

Pursue what you want and take necessary steps to get it. If you want a doctor, make frequent visits to a hospital not because you are sick but because you are going to the hospital’s cafeteria. Do whatever is necessary to get the partner you want.

Do not sit at home and wait; get out and do something. Go out and meet both men and women instead of locking yourself up in thoughts. You never know, a lady friend could introduce you to a man and you end up dating. The best places to meet responsible men in their 40s are bookstores, coffee shops, AA meetings, art fairs, health food stores, work functions, charity benefits among others.

Be comfortable with your body

Do not base your decision on some set preconditions which are related to physical looks and characteristics.… Continue Reading

How to Meet Men (and Women) after a Divorce


Are you past your early 30s and divorced? Are you wondering if it is possible to date again or find love? Perhaps you are thinking, “Who would even want to date a divorcee?” You may have many questions ringing in your mind. However, I can tell you for sure that all these questions have positive answers.

Over 35 Dating after Divorce- Is it Possible?

Yes, it is possible for over 35s to date again. There are some people who do not mind that you are divorced and are looking for confident and mature individuals like you. The thoughts of not being able to have a relationship because you are over 30 are just in your mind and far from reality on ground. Do not be so closed to your thoughts to the extent that you end up thinking it is how it is supposed to be.

Love knows no age limits nor marital status.

There are divorced men and women looking to date again, why not give them a chance? There are also single men and women who prefer dating divorcees. So, get real and let nature take its course. If you are over 35, divorced or not, here are tips to help you meet, attract and retain great partners:

Network, Network, Network

Do your fair share of what is required to meet a man (or woman). Be proactive and ask yourself whether you have done enough. Network as much as possible and attend social gatherings with age mates in your area. You should also check over 35s online dating sites, submit a wonderful descriptive profile of yourself and start contacting members that you are interested in.

Some of the reputable dating sites you can check include Be2, FindMeLove, DateFirst, JustHookUp and others. Seriously, you cannot say you have searched everywhere and have failed to find a date partner.… Continue Reading

Men’s Musings: Why Not Send Flowers

sending-flowersSending flowers is a common activity during courtship or dating. You can send flowers to express your feelings to the woman you love or make a statement.

Depending on where your relationship is, you may or may not feel sending flowers is beneficial. For the most part, you can improve your relationship through the gesture. However, flipping the other side of the coin, some reasons for not sending flowers are understandable. For instance:

  • Flowers are popularly known to be sent by secret admirers, some of who are a complete opposite of a man a lady considers ideal for herself
  • Some ladies can publicly put you off or turn you down with the flowers. This not only happens to strangers but also to friends of the lady
  • Receiving or sending flowers is in most cases perceived to be the starting point of a romantic relationship, which is not really the case
  • Flowers cannot work magic for a man. You have to build your confidence and try your best to win over a lady
  • Flowers can add value to a girl’s perception of you but will not add to your possibility of a relationship. You can gain attraction even without the flowers

The whole act of being creative and spontaneous while sending flowers is what makes a pleasant difference. That is apart from sending love quotes for her either on a card or through your phone. Otherwise, sending flowers can be viewed as the easiest way of getting a girl by shy men.  You know, the type that go to the florist at a corner store and buy flowers to send to a lady and wait for a miracle.

Sending flowers is a good way of expressing affection and sometimes love but is it really necessary if it does not elevate your chances of getting attraction.… Continue Reading